13th sept 2009..yesterday...it was supposed to be one of the happiest day in my life...and so did it turn to be...and why not...it was my son Abhi's birthday. So soon he has grew up crossing 7 autumns of his life...as he stepped into his 8th year... For us as parents he is always a small kid doing some mischievous things, non senses and rubbishes in front of us. It is hard t
o believe that he has grown up into a 7 years old boy so quickly...or is it that we havent grown up? Probably it may be due to a fact that he does so kiddish things much below par of his age that we miss out that growth pattern in him or it may also be true that we do not want to accept that he is 
growing up or we always like to see him doing such things which doesnt give an impression of his growing up. Its not that he is too childish...there are some facts which makes us believe that he is a child of immense potentials...he is a creator and a genius by himself. He makes us look young and too tiny before him. We are proud parents today. Many who see him might think that he is a jovial child enjoying his life as he wants and not doing anything serious. We knowing his potentials have decided to allow him to grow by enjoying life as it comes and as he wants...not too much freedom...but the trust factor in him which makes me tell this. Dont think that i am too possessive or optimistic about my child. May be as per my sixth sense i might be linking this blog to another one of mine about abhi...substantiating the same fact when he grows up to be a different and unique successful individual in the society...may be 20 to 25 years later...when probably i ll be too grey but still full of pride and honour. This is a language of a confident father. If he plays before the day of exam without revising...and goes to the exam as if there is none and still can hold applause for topping in the school, if he tries to know everything by questioning and sub questioning, if he plays cool when he has to be stressed, if we shout at him for stupid acts...and makes us feel sorry for that...my vision of him being a genious might be in the cards when they turn in his favour. We have started noticing creativity in his stupid plays. Our support and blessings are always with him...and God's too. Happy Birthday Appu....
The Celebrations...............His birthday started on the previous day itself. He helped his
grandfather...sastry tata...to decorate home for the occassion. We missed his prabha ajji. Kanasri tata and Sharada ajji(my in law's) were missed too....as they couldnt come due to a compression injury to my father in law. We missed my brothers and brother in law's family. More over Rachu...my brother in law's son...we missed him so much as we always celebrated their birthdays jointly. Though we missed many...the other part of our family joined the party...to make it memorable. The first one to come was my daughter...Bindhiya(student). She filled some joyful environment with her presence...by nature she is no elder to my son. We jointly celebrated the birthday of my yet another daughter...my angel...Archana Kashyap(student)...whose birthday was 1 day later i.e on 14th sept. Other kids at the 
party were...my students...Archana M.S, Ranjita, Dinesh Sahu, Sowmya Bhat, Prathiba, Keshav and best friend..Bharath. But all of us missed my son....Rajesh(student)...seriously. Abhi's friends came in the evening.
We had a cake cut...Black Current...best one from Kaggi's Bakery...Uttarahalli, Bangalore. Every one relished the taste. Meals...another good cattering service from the famous Sastry's Bakery...K.R.Road, Bangalore. The menu had...delicious Bisi bele bath, Holige, Curd rice, Poori and sagu, chips....every one liked the taste amidst enjoyment and celebrations. It was a festive environment...thanks to all who responded my call amidst their busy schedules...of course it is the relationship that counts and matters at last. Some people come from nowhere and become a part of our life...we and abhi too is lucky for having been blessed with such relations in our life. Abhi had some wonderful gifts...apart love...which he ll surely relish for the rest of his life...
C U next year....same day...same time....same celebrations...probably with lots of nears and dears...whom we missed along this time and all those relations which will sum up in the coming days....
o believe that he has grown up into a 7 years old boy so quickly...or is it that we havent grown up? Probably it may be due to a fact that he does so kiddish things much below par of his age that we miss out that growth pattern in him or it may also be true that we do not want to accept that he is 
growing up or we always like to see him doing such things which doesnt give an impression of his growing up. Its not that he is too childish...there are some facts which makes us believe that he is a child of immense potentials...he is a creator and a genius by himself. He makes us look young and too tiny before him. We are proud parents today. Many who see him might think that he is a jovial child enjoying his life as he wants and not doing anything serious. We knowing his potentials have decided to allow him to grow by enjoying life as it comes and as he wants...not too much freedom...but the trust factor in him which makes me tell this. Dont think that i am too possessive or optimistic about my child. May be as per my sixth sense i might be linking this blog to another one of mine about abhi...substantiating the same fact when he grows up to be a different and unique successful individual in the society...may be 20 to 25 years later...when probably i ll be too grey but still full of pride and honour. This is a language of a confident father. If he plays before the day of exam without revising...and goes to the exam as if there is none and still can hold applause for topping in the school, if he tries to know everything by questioning and sub questioning, if he plays cool when he has to be stressed, if we shout at him for stupid acts...and makes us feel sorry for that...my vision of him being a genious might be in the cards when they turn in his favour. We have started noticing creativity in his stupid plays. Our support and blessings are always with him...and God's too. Happy Birthday Appu....The Celebrations...............His birthday started on the previous day itself. He helped his
grandfather...sastry tata...to decorate home for the occassion. We missed his prabha ajji. Kanasri tata and Sharada ajji(my in law's) were missed too....as they couldnt come due to a compression injury to my father in law. We missed my brothers and brother in law's family. More over Rachu...my brother in law's son...we missed him so much as we always celebrated their birthdays jointly. Though we missed many...the other part of our family joined the party...to make it memorable. The first one to come was my daughter...Bindhiya(student). She filled some joyful environment with her presence...by nature she is no elder to my son. We jointly celebrated the birthday of my yet another daughter...my angel...Archana Kashyap(student)...whose birthday was 1 day later i.e on 14th sept. Other kids at the 
party were...my students...Archana M.S, Ranjita, Dinesh Sahu, Sowmya Bhat, Prathiba, Keshav and best friend..Bharath. But all of us missed my son....Rajesh(student)...seriously. Abhi's friends came in the evening. We had a cake cut...Black Current...best one from Kaggi's Bakery...Uttarahalli, Bangalore. Every one relished the taste. Meals...another good cattering service from the famous Sastry's Bakery...K.R.Road, Bangalore. The menu had...delicious Bisi bele bath, Holige, Curd rice, Poori and sagu, chips....every one liked the taste amidst enjoyment and celebrations. It was a festive environment...thanks to all who responded my call amidst their busy schedules...of course it is the relationship that counts and matters at last. Some people come from nowhere and become a part of our life...we and abhi too is lucky for having been blessed with such relations in our life. Abhi had some wonderful gifts...apart love...which he ll surely relish for the rest of his life...
C U next year....same day...same time....same celebrations...probably with lots of nears and dears...whom we missed along this time and all those relations which will sum up in the coming days....
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